Internal struggles around his sexuality intensified throughout his twenties. Appleton later recounted the intense dread of breaking up his young family, fearing rejection from both his children and the close community he had cultivated in Leicester. At age 26, he made the difficult choice to come out as gay.
The conversation could have destroyed their foundation. Instead, Katon met his revelation with radical empathy and practical maturity. The romantic partnership dissolved, but the co-parenting unit stood firm. There were no messy court battles or vitriolic custody filings.
Appleton relocated to London to take on high-fashion editorial work and television competitions, including winning the 2010 BBC series Young Hairdresser of the Year. Yet, he traveled back to Leicester constantly. Katon remained his primary cheerleader as his career began pulling him across the Atlantic toward Los Angeles. Billy and Torie stayed with their mother during school terms, visiting Appleton as his status in California exploded.